Complain: to express dissatisfaction, pain, uneasiness, censure, resentment, or grief; find fault.
What good is it?- Does it change your circumstances?- Does complaining get you what you want in life? Typically when someone is complaining they are expressing concerns about others.
Your wife won’t come back because you complain about it. You won’t get a raise because you b!tch about how broke you are. The rain doesn’t stop just because you wish for sunshine.
The uneasiness created from your circumstances requires internal changes.
- Option #1- Change how you look at the situation.
- Option #2- Do something different to modify the situation.
- Option #3- Ignore the problem and be still. Many times the situation goes away on its own.
“Much of your pain is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self.”- Khalil Gibran
Complaining only convinces others that you are not in control.